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Sinfully Seductive

By Wildside Liz

• Female Orgasm

• Liz's Date Favourites

Female Orgasm Before You Get Started Some women seem to have an incredibly difficult time reaching orgasm during intercourse; that is if they are able to orgasm at all. The most common reason for this is that they don’t know their own bodies. Society has had this brilliant effect of instilling into our minds from childhood that masturbation is sinful, wrong and dirty. Well, everyone is entitled to his or her own opinion, but all common sense dictates that this couldn’t be farther from the truth. Thanks to this misconception, many people, especially women, have stopped themselves from learning their bodies, thereby reducing the chances of being able to fully enjoy sex. It is hard for many women to unlearn all that they have been taught, and they often feel that “touching themselves does not bring pleasure”. There is some truth behind that - they are not lying, they do not feel pleasure. However, this is not because there is no pleasure to be felt, just that they have been indirectly taught to not enjoy it. Getting beyond this will take time and patience, so never rush your partner. If your woman has never had an orgasm (this is often the case if they say, "I think I’ve had one"),  to get things started. Learning to please a woman who can’t orgasm on her own is extremely difficult, so we highly suggest that you start with getting her to play with herself, and allow her to learn how her body reacts to different stimulus. The last note has to do with your approach. Orgasms can’t be forced, and the more pressure you put on her to cum, the less likely it is to happen. Take things slow, learn techniques, experiment with them and find what works. If you start getting frustrated when you aren’t seeing results, it will show, and unfortunately make it even harder. Sex is supposed to be fun and enjoyable - as soon as you make it too serious, it takes away from the pleasure! About Orgasms There are two major types of orgasms a women can have - clitoral and G-spot (otherwise known as vaginal orgasms). When masturbating, women usually learn to get themselves off using their clitoris. There is nothing wrong with that, but it leaves the whole world of vaginal orgasms untapped. Many women are unable to climax during intercourse, as they aren't familiar enough with the stimulation to enjoy it to its fullest extent. While you learn to read your partner's body signs, it never hurts to ask a question, especially if you are trying new techniques. Coitus, commonly known as vaginal sex, can be one of the clumsiest ways to stimulate a woman, if done without thought. While it does provide an atmosphere that can be highly arousing, emotionally satisfying and erotic, the degree of stimulation to the woman's clitoral area is nothing compared to masturbation or cunnilingus. One can incorporate manual stimulation to the clitoris during sex, but this is not very necessary if your woman has had vaginal orgasms in the past, and if you know how to hit the g spot correctly. No one wants to involve geometry into sex, but it is wise to know which positions stimulate the G spot the best. In order to help her achieve a vaginal orgasm, you need to make sure you are "hitting" the G-spot with each stroke. Many men fantasize about the myth of female ejaculation. Well, for starters, its no myth, most women should theoretically be able to have them.  Some Ideas on Getting Her There: First of, we would like to remind you to relax, and not to make her orgasm the purpose behind the encounter. The more of a goal you make it; the less likely it is that it will happen. Relax and enjoy yourselves, as that is the most important part. The Grind During Intercourse, you want to increase the pressure exerted on the woman's clitoris. This can be accomplished by rotating your hips just like when you are "grinding" on a dance floor. Try to really push against the front of her groin with the area just above the penis. Rocking back and forth or side to side is a really good way of getting started. Rule of Thumb With the woman sitting on top, the man should lie flat on his back, pelvic tilted upward, and stomach muscles tightened. You want to arch your hips upwards to improve the quality of “the Grind”; this can be achieved easily by putting a pillow under the man’s bum. He then should put his hand over the woman’s pubic region, and place his thumb on the woman’s clitoris. While the woman is riding her partner, he can simultaneously stimulate her clitoris. T Position With the woman lying on her back, the man should lie perpendicularly (i.e., at a right angle to her, thus forming the ‘T’), while straddling the woman’s far leg. Depending on the woman’s flexibility, this can be a great position for deep penetration, while exposing the clitoris for manual stimulation. This double stimulation is very gratifying and can often lead to the big “O” really quickly. The Maximizer The woman lies on her back, legs tightly held together. The man lies on top, or stands/kneels, in front. Instead of being directly in line with her, the man should be at a slight diagonal. Both of her legs should be over one shoulder, or on one side, of his body; he should begin penetration. This position is designed to maximize female clitoral stimulation and is easiest to perform with the man standing or kneeling (i.e. the woman should have her legs hanging off a counter, couch or bed). Using Sex Toys Sex toys can be used in virtually any sexual position, and thanks to the creative people who design toys, if you can think of a toy, chances are its already made.  Vibrating Clitoral Suckers This class of products works as follows: put the cup part of the toy over the clitoral area, squeeze the pump a couple times to build up some suction, then turn on the vibrating egg, which is generally attached to the cup. The suction is great because it draws more blood to the clitoris, making it more sensitive, as well as it keeps the toy hands free. It can be used during intercourse to add incredible sensations, but some varieties may prove a little bulky for some positions. Regular Vibrators For those of you who are looking for something with a little more functionality, I recommend getting a regular vibrator. The can be held in place during intercourse to stimulate whatever you want, they can be inserted anally, and can be used on their own as well. They are available in a wide variety of shapes, sizes, and purposes. Vibrating Cock Rings This class of products is ingenious! The toy is basically a ring with one or more vibrating eggs attached. Simply slide it down the shaft of the penis, turn on the vibrating eggs, and voila, super pleasure for both parties. Play O (UTOPIA) Orgasmic Gel by Durex Try Play O ... it is an unscented gel to be applied to the clitoris and surrounding area. It uses a combination of ingredients designed to stimulate, increase desire and bring intense orgasms.

 

Liz's Date Favourites Go Stargazing! One of the most romantic times spent with a partner is in a secluded, private place watching the stars together and talking about your hopes and dreams for the future. If this is something you would like to try, take some time and use the following tools and ideas to make your evening of stargazing a memorable and informative one! Ways to observe the sky Choose the best tool based on your level of experience. With your naked eye You can see most common occurrences, perfect for getting to know the sky and its changes. Using a good pair of binoculars A highly recommended beginners tool! You are able to see more of the sky than with a telescope, making it easier to scan the sky to find what you're looking for. Using a telescope A powerful way to see objects not normally seen by the naked eye. Going to a planetarium This gives you access to some of the worlds most powerful telescopes. Most planetariums also provide entertaining shows and events. What to observe The best way to successfully find constellations and other nighttime phenomenon is by learning your way around the sky. Start first by locating the obvious, the moon. Then if you're in the northern hemisphere, The Big Dipper. If you're in the southern hemisphere, the Southern Cross. The following tools will help you do this: Downloadable Sky Maps Each month Skymaps.com provides a new downloadable map of what can be seen in the sky. The guide is very user friendly! What Stars Can Be Seen Tonight? This tool provides the sky map for your city by entering your location in the world. What Celestial Events Are Happening? Want to know which planets are observable? Is their a Blue Moon coming up? Any comets passing our way? Check out Space Watch and find out what's coming up in our skies. Where you should go The best place to view the stars is in a dark place, away from city lights. If this is not an option, try finding an area around your city that has the least amount of light. Tips and ideas If you have a pickup truck, put a twin mattress in the back and bring blankets. Bring hot chocolate & marshmallows. Make this an on-going tradition and keep a log/diary together of what you both find. Date Idea: Cooking Classes "The way to a person's heart is through the stomach." -Source Unknown If you want a great date idea that will leave a lasting impression, as well as skills, taking a cooking class together may be just the thing for you! With an enormous offering of classes in just about every city it can be a very practical and unique dating experience. Get started with a few of these ideas and tips: Find out if your date has any food allergies. Make sure to avoid places that use any offending ingredients. Find out if your date dislikes any certain type of food, and make sure to avoid classes preparing those types of foods. See if the classes you are interested in are hands on or just observation classes. Make reservations! Spaces tend to fill up quickly, especially in popular classes. Be sure to let your date know to wear something comfortable as you will probably be standing up most of the time. Where To Find Classes: A quick check in your local yellow pages or city Internet guide should produce a few cooking class options. You may also want to check out local restaurants, cooking schools(SuperStore, Independent Grocery), continuing education classes or public classes available through your city, or private lessons. Insider's Tip:   I recommend trying your favorite restaurants first. You'd be surprised at how many offer public and private classes. Date Idea: Snow Play For warm weather devotees, snow and romance don’t seem to mesh, but we’ve got news for you. Winter’s snowflakes create the perfect stage for a picturesque tryst. Pack a bag full of snow fun essentials and head to a snowy escape near you. Choose a secluded mountaintop away from the business of the city, venture to a high-traffic ski resort, or find the locals' favorite sledding hill and spend the day there. If you’ve got the time for an overnight escapade, do consider it. Imagine cozying up for a romantic night next to a crackling fire in a mountain lodge, surrounded by the serenity of a silencing blanket of snow. After your day of hitting the slopes, retreat back to your mountain lodge for good food, microbrews, or a piping hot cup of cocoa. What to do: Ski, snowboard, cross-country ski, ride snow-mobiles, or hike in snow shoes. Go ice-skating. Take a walk and make snow angels together. Build a fire and cuddle up with a blanket and cocoa. Slow dance. Build a snowman. Have a friendly (or not-so-friendly if you are real competitive) snowball fight. Have a paintball battle. Go hunting. Your snow day essentials: A camera – Be sure to bring a camera to capture silly moments, take pictures of yourselves kissing, or do a mini-photo shoot with beautiful snow-covered mountains as the backdrop. Cocoa – Bring cocoa in a good thermos so that it’s piping hot when you want it. A great playlist or compilation CD – For the drive or for a bit of spontaneous dancing in the snow, a great playlist is sure to elevate the level of romance. Snowman stuff – A carrot for the nose, raisins for the mouth and eyes, Oreos for the buttons, a hat and scarf will do just fine for your snowy friend. The right gear (snow boots, pants, jackets, layers of clothing, etc), scarves, extra gloves, hats and blankets are a must. Getting too cold is a quick way to ruin the romance.





Pickup lines that work on him Want to set a guy on fire from head to toe? Instead of playing the wallflower and waiting for him to approach you, try making the first move yourself with these foolproof pickup lines. Don’t be shy -- guys are pretty easy to snag because, no matter what you say, they are just delighted not to have to be the aggressor for once. Be fun and flirty! “Hi.” Sounds sort of obvious and perhaps a bit generic, but it works! Guys just aren’t used to girls approaching them, and your confident friendliness will be refreshing to him. Besides, who doesn’t return a hello greeting? Certainly not a worthy guy... “Can you help me?” Maybe you've noticed your new crush has a cool new gadget for which you just so happen to be in the market, so ask his opinion on it. Or maybe you are reading a book and need a definition for a word that he may know. Guys like to feel smart and useful, so giving him the opportunity to help you will make him feel special, and therefore, interested in you. “I like your (fill in what you genuinely like on him: shirt, accessory, smile).” Find something you like about him, such as an article of clothing. Don’t just let him know you like it; include a question about it to keep the conversation going. Girls are lucky -- we get complimented all of the time, but guys rarely do. “Want a bite?” Say you are sitting in a cafe, eating a piece of decadent chocolate cake. Offer the cutie at the table next to you a must-try bite. Not only is eating dessert a sensual experience, but also you will appear generous and open. Chances are, he will take you up on your offer, giving you the opportunity to engage in conversation.  Plus, we could all use one bite less of cake, right? “Oh, I’m sorry...” As you reach for your coffee at Tim Horton's or maneuver your way in a not-so crowded bar, gently but still noticeably brush by a man you've spotted. Follow it with a coy, “Oh, excuse me,” to signal that you are interested and to bounce the ball into his court. “You’re cute, and I got sick of waiting for you to come over and talk to me.” There is nothing wrong with going up to a guy and just saying what you're thinking. Although you become more vulnerable to rejection with this one (who knows, maybe he is waiting for his girlfriend), you will never wonder, “What if?” If nothing else, you'll just get more practice talking to guys. On the other hand, if he isn’t waiting for his girlfriend, this undoubtedly will get him smiling, and chances are he will engage in conversation. A few lines that don’t work on us, but do work on him "I saved this seat for you" is a great direct invitation. "Will you go home with me?" The pure shock value alone is guaranteed to get his attention. "You look just like [fill in hot celebrity here]." It's a bit cheesy, but the instant ego boost is sure to light up his face. "Will you watch my stuff for a minute?" It's a subtle way of letting him know he is the chosen one.